@dansup you do have a lot going on and it is hard to balance developing, communication and also your own personal needs.
Many folks on here do have friends and family on Facebook and Instagram.
It can be hard to figure these things out and on Fedi there is an quite rightly an expectation of transparency. Which is it's own pressure for a project. Especially with the stage you are at being the developer and the figurehead.
It's an issue for lots of projects.