 YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA INTRO KIT people don't seem to get the kit these days. read these: * What Makes A Fuckhead? https://t.ly/7Gdg * A Group Is Its Own Worst Enemy https://t.ly/G5jT * The Tyranny Of Structurelessness https://t.ly/dAjZx FOREWARNED IS FOREARMED 7 comments
 @dznz @davidgerard The Tyranny of Structurelessness reminds me of my experiences trying to turn a LARP group into an effective organization, and the troubles with "old guard" people opposed to formal, democratic structures. @davidgerard (...hence, "the people running the system discovered to their horror that the technological and social issues could not in fact be decoupled".)  @davidgerard I also recommend @anildash 's timeless "If Your Website Is Full of Assholes, It's Your Fault": https://www.anildash.com/2011/07/20/if_your_websites_full_of_assholes_its_your_fault-2/  RE: A group is its own worst enemy I did see two people flirting on Mastodon once, then they stopped. And there's a guy I know who seems pretty thirsty but he's been quiet. So not so much on the sex talk. The lesson that one needs to build in moderation from the start seems to have been missed again on a different site. And you can't solve social problems with tech has not been learnt here! And size of server keeping small and interesting is not .social. @davidgerard Thanks for sharing this. Clay Shirky’s piece “A Group Is Its Own Worst Enemy” is really relevant and helpful for stuff we’re working on right now in https://www.socialroots.io/ Much appreciated. 🙏 |
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@davidgerard I believe there is one completely unsung piece of expository literature that these discussions fail to touch upon: What defines and characterizes a douchebag?
https://www.estately.com/blog/2014/03/the-top-u-s-cities-for-douchebags/