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@nathan ...don't care about trans folk enough to not buy a game and at worst are doing it to add yet another poke in our eyes, were being prioritised over us. It felt, and feels like bad allyship. Not being a TERF, not being a Nazi, but bad allyship. Cis folk telling trans folk to pipe down. I accept it's more complex than that, but if this thread is the cause of Nathan shutting down the instance of 20k people then it's important to get this out there... 2/ 3 comments
@nathan This has REALLY shown the systemic weakness of having one person in charge of a large instance. They become both the single point of failure (closing the instance if they get overloaded, by work or emotion or whatever) and the single arbiter of decision-making that requires them to have either a cast-iron constitution (highly rare) or the psychopathic self-assurance of a CEO (cough musk)... 4/ @nathan In short I wish I'd followed my instincts and found a smaller instance months ago.I'm referring to Nathan in the 3rd person because he's said he's not checking mentions, by the way. And again for the record, I dissociate myself with accusations of terfism or nazism again him. They're ludicrous. That's pretty much it. FIN/ |
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@nathan If this is the case, then this is about the admin's feelings being hurt and their fragile emotional health. That's not ableism and it's not a criticism of Nathan. I have my own issues and I both sympathise and empathise but that doesn't mean I have to agree with his position.
My opinion is he's on the side of the Angels and I wish this hadn't happened but it has. I have no ill will towards him - far from it and I hope when it calms down he'll decide to continue.
One thing tho... 3/