Gregory's Server@nathan If this is the case, then this is about the admin's feelings being hurt and their fragile emotional health. That's not ableism and it's not a criticism of Nathan. I have my own issues and I both sympathise and empathise but that doesn't mean I have to agree with his position.
My opinion is he's on the side of the Angels and I wish this hadn't happened but it has. I have no ill will towards him - far from it and I hope when it calms down he'll decide to continue.
One thing tho... 3/
@nathan This has REALLY shown the systemic weakness of having one person in charge of a large instance. They become both the single point of failure (closing the instance if they get overloaded, by work or emotion or whatever) and the single arbiter of decision-making that requires them to have either a cast-iron constitution (highly rare) or the psychopathic self-assurance of a CEO (cough musk)... 4/