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AlexisDyslexic

@VeryBadLlama i'm very unhappy about the fact that in order to have friends I need to coordinate a week in advance, commit to a timeschedule, be ready to leave the house on time, socialize for many hours and participate in activities. And somehow this is considered fun. I have made friends, I don't like it. Would rather stay home and watch videos.

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CourtneyCantrell won't go back

@alexisdyslexic @VeryBadLlama For real though, my family and I make it a point to keep our schedule as clear as possible so we can do things with people we like.

Unfortunately, very few of the people we like also keep their schedules clear. The drive to always be on the go and doing all the activities seems to have infected most of our friends. 🫤

AlexisDyslexic

@courtcan @VeryBadLlama yeah, I mean I didn't not have fun, but it was a 5 hr time commitment, an hour & 1/2 being in the car and a week of texting. I just prefer choosing activities the day of or choosing what to do based on mood & weather.
Most scheduling and coordinating to me feels like work to me. But then if you ask those same people to hang out day of, they would be like "we have plans". (Not entiretly fair in this exact example, but happens a lot).
I love keeping my schedule clear.

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