@courtcan @VeryBadLlama yeah, I mean I didn't not have fun, but it was a 5 hr time commitment, an hour & 1/2 being in the car and a week of texting. I just prefer choosing activities the day of or choosing what to do based on mood & weather.
Most scheduling and coordinating to me feels like work to me. But then if you ask those same people to hang out day of, they would be like "we have plans". (Not entiretly fair in this exact example, but happens a lot).
I love keeping my schedule clear.