@hannu_ikonen I've never read up on DBT validation before. Thank you for sharing the link.
I'm partway through and I have to say that most people I know in any context are terrible at Level three.
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@hannu_ikonen I've never read up on DBT validation before. Thank you for sharing the link. I'm partway through and I have to say that most people I know in any context are terrible at Level three. 3 comments
@hannu_ikonen I'd been thinking about 3 a lot lately (without knowing it was "3") because I've witnessed, first and second hand, a lot of people feeling entitled to define someone else or control their narrative at a level that qualifies as covert violence. So not so much 3, as anti-3. @ShaulaEvans ya. 3 is tough, requires earnest effort to *hear* and see someone |
@ShaulaEvans arguably 3 is the most advanced. Requires teasing out underpinning values or important beliefs and connecting them