@hannu_ikonen I'd been thinking about 3 a lot lately (without knowing it was "3") because I've witnessed, first and second hand, a lot of people feeling entitled to define someone else or control their narrative at a level that qualifies as covert violence.
So not so much 3, as anti-3.
@ShaulaEvans ya. 3 is tough, requires earnest effort to *hear* and see someone