Yeah I hate that. Those people have a serious lack of imagination, creativity, and community spirit. But here's the thing.
They aren't wrong.
IT IS a massive pain in the ass. I know because I do it. I've been doing it for over 10 years, and now support services for 100+ people.
IMO tutorials and walkthroughs are great because they are part of building a new experience where it can be easier and it can be understandable in a shorter period of time.
But I'm not sure it's enough, I think we also need to take a critical look at, for example, the UI/UX of linux servers, and try to do better.
I agree with what the person said about NixOS and having techie folks create recipes that can be instantiated by others without the same amount of time investment. IMO something like that, plus usability testing, could make a huge difference.
Usability testing is basically impossible without $$$$ investment and business involvement, simply because of how labor-intensive, un-fun, it is, etc. But the good news is it only takes one -- it only takes one group to break through that barrier and produce a gem, and it can be copied the world over.
@forestjohnson @vkc I'm not going to sit here and say that running my own has always been problem free, but I've literally never had a freemail account (and I'm 40), I run my own Nextcloud, and Wordpress.
For my company I run chat, mail, storage, git, kanban, and video calling.
You have to keep up-to-date on things a bit, like running email now is a lot different than when I started like... 20 years ago. But then again, so is operating any other piece of software.