@dansup what does upset mean in this context though? Like, if you run a Mastodon instance, and someone goes: if you don't block Threads, I'm moving instances

You go: I won't block Threads

They go: alright, I'm moving

Is that upset? Because I see that as perfectly reasonable; this kind of freedom is what makes the Fediverse awesome

If people start harassing instance admins, that's a whole different story—anyone who does that doesn't belong on the Fediverse to begin with