@TechConnectify @colinstu I think that where your metaphor there breaks down is that it was actually that you were having a party in a night club and only the folks who made it past some arbitrary door screening that you didn't control made it into your party. Sure, you could go look for what was happening on the sidewalk, but you had a good party going inside, why bother.
Now, I agree with the need for some sort of quality filter, but it should be controlled by each person hosting a party