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 It's going to be cray-cray over then next few days. Manage your spoons well. The wave of sign-ups will come and go, but burn-out or some bad moderation decisions will affect a community for a long, long time. It's better to slowly but reliably build a small, resilient, safe space than to try to go hockey-stick on sign-ups only to have people get burnt, abandon their accounts, and tell their friends about it. We're playing the long game. Keep calm and be excellent to each other. 17 comments
@aks I am aware, sadly. There's a lot of great instances out there, though.  @daria is it not? honest question, I'd really like to know if there were incidents that made queer folk feel unsafe!  @rysiek great points. I've got a draft post with advice for Kbin and Lemmy folks based on past surges, planning on revising it this weekend. Can I quote you on "Manage your spoons well"? It'd be in the section on scalability and sustainability https://privacy.thenexus.today/dont-tell-people-its-easy-draft/#scalability @jdp23 you can if you want to, but I feel the acknowledgement should go not to me personally, but to the community of people with disabilities. I picked the term up from them. |
Gregory's Server
@rysiek just to notify to avoid federating lemmy.ml and lemmygrad instances for both are owned by tankies and genocide deniers (yes, really)