@nathan Thank you for keeping up this instance, and I also agree with your views here. In the LGBT discords that I'm part of, the majority of people also thinks exactly the same way as you do.
I still hope that you find a solution to keep mastodon.lol alive in some way. Is there a team to help you moderate, could the situation you describe above have been prevented? There should not be such a burden on your shoulders alone.
I don't like to lose this community because of some stupid game...