The good news: there are lots of things that eat the mites that eat grapevines.
1. Bigger mites!
2. Ladybugs have tiny little relatives called SPIDER MITE DESTROYERS. Look at them. You gotta bring the results to get a name like that when you're less than 1/8" long.
Spider mite destroyers are so hungry, they'll eat every mite in sight & fly away.
Predatory mites take a little longer to get pest mites under control. But once they're in your vineyard, they stick around.