@loke If you think of it as a creepy skeevy guy, the violations of consent become much more clear:

- “Do you want to have sex? ‘Yes’ or ‘Maybe later’”
- “I have given myself permission to grope you. If you want me to stop, here is a checkbox in a settings panel.”
- “You cannot decline me exposing myself to you permanently but you can pause it for up to 2 weeks at a time.”
- “Why are you upset at me pulling off your clothes? I sent you an email weeks ago saying I can do this, surely you read it, and continuing to be around me means you agree.”
- “I have installed cameras in your bedroom, but until the 15th of next month you can send me an email opting out. After that it’s too late.”
- “You don’t want me to keep texting you? Fine. I am no longer sending you messages about my sexual fantasies but you’re still subscribed to my messages about when/what I think about your body, updates on when I masturbate, my new adult toys, etc.”