@drewdevault from my point of view, I do believe that some of that person's nerurodivergence can come into play with that, however, a bigger chunk is most likely associated with upbringing... the whole nature vs nurture thing. I believe that there's interplay and sometimes people need to take the time to unlearn what was erroneously taught to them either through trauma or a harmful authority figure who most likely wasn't neurodivergent.