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dansup

I know that there are a few people who dislike me for whatever reasons, and I'm okay with that

But when I enter another fedi project chat, I make it clear that I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable with my presence, and that we can chat via Issues if the maintainer prefers

Respect means a lot to me and it goes both ways!

I joined another fediverse projects chat and after introducing myself said the following:

"Also, do let me know if my presence here is disruptive and you'd rather interact via Github Issues, I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable and understand if that is what you prefer, in that case I'll head out and we can discuss via Issues!"
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Milton :mw:

@dansup

Very nice that you take the high road!!!

Feyter

@dansup I don't really get why people don't like you on the level that it makes them uncomfortable to be in a chat group with you.

I feel like @Gargron also sometimes get some unjustified level of dislike.

I respect both of you for the things you do. I hope you don't take it too personal if some people dislike you. Maybe that is just unavoidable once you are interacting with a certain number of people. You can't make everyone happy.

dansup

@feyter I can't speak for others, but I have made plenty of mistakes throughout my Pixelfed journey, and I can understand why some people dislike me

That being said, I have grown a lot since I started this project, like seriously, I've come out and accepted who I am, and that really impacted how I see myself and how I can be a better person

I don't want to be liked by everyone, but I do hope those ppl who dislike me, have seen my growth and maybe there is a path forward

Life all bout growth 🚀

Feyter

@dansup for me making mistakes is fine. Accepting and acknowledging those mistakes is not easy.

You said it. We can learn from them and it helps us to become a better version of our selves. 🙂

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