@dansup I'll second this.
I've been running multiple separate servers on DO for years and never had an issue (Mastodon (2 servers), Peertube, WordPress, WireGuard VPN, mail server, Phanpy, Bluesky PDS, and a general web server) with never a problem. I also use 2 DO Managed Postgres DBs and a DO Managed MySQL DB. Everything runs fast. Their support is excellent. They have many excellent tutorials.
Once they contacted me because I forgot to close a port in the firewall a few hours after I forgot to close it, so they do security scanning as well.
Scaling to a larger server, to get more disk space, or a larger DB is just a click.
Automated backups.
I think they are worth the small extra cost.