 I told a certain person off not because I want to somehow condone @dettlaff's clearly idiotic behaviour. This also had nothing to do with Russia or nazis or ableism apologists or whatever else of sort. It was because I have zero tolerance threshold for bullying and petty blackmail, especially from people I thought I'm on the same team with. I'm taking no such shit, whoever you are. 34 comments
@lonelyowl Whether intended or not, what he did was repeatedly denying what a person was saying, which amounted to pushing a conversation that goes nowhere onto a mentally unstable person, instead of just finishing it before it got out of hand. This is wrong, and @dettlaff should feel ashamed.  > repeatedly denying what a person was saying Was what that person were saying false and worth denying? @lonelyowl This is not a thing that matters. Pushing an unwarranted conversation on a mentally unstable person is wrong, however you cut it. And by the way, they were absolutely right about Nazi dogwhistles, which there were. Interesting way of thinking 🤔 I'm also pretty much mentally unstable, though i'm usually take my own responsibility to get out of any chat or conversation that makes me feel like a shit. @lonelyowl Of course, your experience is universal and can be applied to everybody on the planet. Not. Mental illness comes in all shapes and colours. Not everybody can control themselves at all times. You need to understand that in order to be a halfway decent human being. Not like i don't agree with the statement that trolling mentally unstable weirdos is bad even if they say act silly. You're just the first person i've ever heard say that. Most people don't care about that, even "the decent human beings". They act the way they wish anyway, and i'm used to it, it is something i expect from everyone 🤔 > You're just the first person i've ever heard say that. Well, may be, you need to talk to different people more then. I don't think that this stance is any sort of novel or radical.  While reading today's infamous thread, I also thought about how we should interact with mentally unstable people on social platforms.  @SignPainter @drq @lonelyowl The problem is that the post -factual is clear who is what is sick. This is not immediately clear in the moment @dettlaff true. I was not aware of that person, so I had to go through their page to figure that out.  @lonelyowl@lor.sh @drq@mastodon.ml @dettlaff@mastodon.ml normalize actually gtfo'ing of the thread when being told so 1. if a simple conversation makes a sick person flare up, it doesn't automatically mean they were trolled. @dettlaff I will not ban you for being an idiot. But I'm responsible to tell everyone that I recognize you being an idiot, so that a) you know better next time b) everyone knows that this is not on me or mastodon.ml, but on you. 1. vision of truth is personal for everyone. (edit) 2. If you truly want someone to accept your point of view, rather than publicly denying it to save face, public criticism is not a good option. What is your goal? If it's to publicly scold, then it's fine. But if it's to suggest an alternative opinion and make the person think, then it's a poor choice. This is a certain base of the correct dialogue. If you want, I can bring links to sources @dettlaff Я намекаю, что до тебя не доходит суть сообщения. Ну или ты намеренно пытаешься перевести стрелки, чтобы не извиняться за свое идиотское поведение, ставшее первопричиной всей истории. @dettlaff Ты ведь понимаешь, да, чего стоят аргументы к форме? Всем ПОЕБАТЬ, "с чьей стороны произошел переход на личности". Прожал его до перехода на личности, а потом до федиблока - ты. Анализируй это. @drq буду рад если у тебя есть доступ к удаленным сообщениям, и ты сможешь скинуть их мне в лс в матриксе. я перечитаю их посмотрю что стало тригером. те сообщения я писал на скорую руку через переводчик, там мог быть неккоректный перевод, или оскорбительный подтекст.  @th3rdsergeevich @drq ну блин спасибо) я знаю где тред, проблема в том что часть сообщений удалено, часть отредачено  > можно было прогуглить конкретно эту тему прежде чем отвечать "truth is personal for everyone" Дефф, ты... довольно не конструктивно, могу тоже прислать ссылки на пару видосов * не правды, плохо перевел имел в виду: понимание правильности -- свое у каждого. из этого выходит что правду зачастую, каждый нахождит свою, и кто-то ошибается.  |
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> @dettlaff's clearly idiotic behaviour.
What did he do wrong 🤔