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ADHDean

Mastodon is my primary social media, and there’s a lot I dig about it. But if there’s one thing I’d like to change, it’s the way people say THIS IS A CRISIS RIGHT NOW AND IT’S THE MAIN CRISIS AND IF YOU DON’T DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT RIGHT NOW YOU’RE BAD AND WRONG!!!

Know what? It’s *your* crisis. Do what you think is right. Stop judging others for having different priorities, political or otherwise. Quit putting everything in black and white, absolute terms. It’s exhausting, and nobody can live like that.

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Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾

@adhdeanasl Totally, totally. And a lot of times it's skewed towards what Americans think is a crisis. The rest of the world have other priorities and we just want to be left alone.

Juho Mäntysalo

@liztai @adhdeanasl

Just to air my related pet peeve: US people think they're the world to the extend they don't even bother to put their location on their profile. And if there's something that can be read as location, it's a place that's so "other" that they don't even think it's an even theoretical alternative.

Just the day before yesterday I made an error by thinking someone was Syrian..

Joanna Holman

@adhdeanasl @liztai I very much agree, although unfortunately the same attitude seems to have taken over most social platforms

Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾

@joannaholman @adhdeanasl Only way to manage is to mute, filter and block. Thank God Mastodon has these features. Don't think I can be here otherwise.

Joanna Holman

@adhdeanasl @liztai it frustrates me that it’s built on the false assumption that everyone is complicit and everyone is in the position to do something useful. I am so so tired of speaking up being treated as inherently virtuous and required regardless of whether the person being demanded to speak knows what they’re talking about or has access to an audience that needs to hear about the topic

ADHDean

@joannaholman Yes, the whole “if you say nothing, you’re one of them” thing. Not every issue is the Third Reich exterminating the Jews. Sure, there’s a lot of bad stuff out there, but can we take a break from the constant apocalypse mentality? I’m tired. @liztai

Your Favorite Baritenor

@adhdeanasl I've had enough personal crises without adopting those of others. Yes, it's exhausting. Similarly, I've stopped reading all those damned outrage-of-the-day blogs.

billy joe bowers - Harris2024

@adhdeanasl

I feel like it's everywhere, just somewhat easier to ignore other places when they're feeding you nonsense to fill up your time.

Social Diaspora Bard

@adhdeanasl Kinda hard to ignore crises when your own safety is at stake. But I'm guessing you know nothing about what that feels like.

korvroffe

@textualdeviance @adhdeanasl
I too am constantly worried about climate change.

Mark Gardner

@adhdeanasl @lisamelton Agreed. Individual social media “activism” is pointless compared to the real thing and whinging about friends’ perceived inaction is just another way of wishing someone else would do the work.

Grassroots Joe

@adhdeanasl

I well understand the fatigue and desire to get a break from all the shitty stuff going on in the world, but I don't think it's anyone's responsibility but yours to curate your feed to tone down what you see.
If you are interested, may I suggest you build a few lists populated with accounts that will meet your desire for fun or silly or intellectually stimulating or the arts or whatever you like.
That way anytime you need an uplift fix, you can be confident of getting what you need.

Juho Mäntysalo

@adhdeanasl

Well, there are problems that can't be seen as consumer choice, like the polycrisis, or human rights. Everyone SHOULD commit to at least seeing these as important.

Then there's things that aren't consumer choice, but where binary thinking is just making things worse (the lgbt+ has the '+' due to people repeatedly collapsing the choices past sense).

Beneath that there's the local politics, or things that can be seen as consumerism.

Paxil

@adhdeanasl LOL you would not enjoy Bluesky at all.

madmax

@adhdeanasl The most annoying thing is "all caps". There are plenty of ways to emphasize but for some reason **all caps** get used all the time, it make things harder to read. I can't focus on what they are actually saying. This is text, screaming is unnecessary and it never feels like that, instead it just feels annoying.

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@adhdeanasl

It’s a global world. We are all dependent on each other for some things.
Maybe there is a top priority that we should all pull together on.

Jörg Seidel

@adhdeanasl
Not happening in my bubble too often. Maybe try switching server.
@anderspuck

Harro van der Klauw

@adhdeanasl "Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man." - The Dude

;-)

RolingMetal

@adhdeanasl Thanks for being a voice of reason. So many crises, but Mastodon is fixing only one :)

TomJ_MN☮️🇮🇱🇵🇸🕊️🇺🇦🇷🇺🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

@adhdeanasl Well stated❗️😎

So tired of “breaking news“ that’s not breaking and/or not really anything critically newsworthy from most all the major networks that I try not to glean any content from, if I can help it.

Admonishing urgency unnecessarily usually are cries for help in some twisted way, in my opinion.

Also, so sick and tired of these same major networks trying to make a “horse race” out of this US presidential election (obviously for more profit 💵 disregarding the damage it does to our democracy and their own possible continuing existence) when one candidate in the red ball cap with the horrid malignant narcissistic bronzer and ridiculous hairstyle is so massively unqualified and obviously clinically demented it’s crazy (pun intended).🤨

@adhdeanasl Well stated❗️😎

So tired of “breaking news“ that’s not breaking and/or not really anything critically newsworthy from most all the major networks that I try not to glean any content from, if I can help it.

Admonishing urgency unnecessarily usually are cries for help in some twisted way, in my opinion.

apemantus

@adhdeanasl This is an unprecedented total crisis of opinions. If we don’t stop judging, mankind will be exhausted forever…

Sen the Professional

@adhdeanasl The only thing I've found to do is to try and pick out some keywords and add a filter so I don't hear about that specific cause célèbre again. But not everyone helpfully SEO's their exhortation, and sometimes the text is in an image, or w/e, so I can only filter out so much. Yes it drives me nuts as well.

Carmen 🌸

@adhdeanasl There's no way Mastodon's political culture isn't seriously harming people. Some people here must be making themselves physically ill with worry and anger.

Gareth

@adhdeanasl

Agree.

I also think it's a downside of there not being an algorithm. (I'm here for the upside)

Some people like being absolutist. Some are exaggerating it to get engagement.

I've been getting very annoyed too especially when I want to read a cycling post and I get an anti fascist post in the same message.

I support your appeal to get people to tone it down from time to time and remind myself that I have to constantly refine filters based on other people's changes.

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