@fullfathomfive there’s levels of disability too: my daughter has very high support needs, so activities and facilities that claim to cater for disabled people often don’t cater for her: we need hoists for toiletting, swimming, using beach chairs, etc. she needs a mashed/liquid diet. She needs to avoid infection

I did my best to “manage” for many years, to give her the best life and involve her in the community, but now I have long covid, and I no longer have the energy