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Quenby (they/them)

All out of ducks? Pick a few up here.

Too many ducks? Give a few ducks.

Anonymous poll

Poll

deposits 🦆
123
51.2%
withdrawals 🦆
125
52.1%
240 people voted.
Voting ended 17 Aug 2024 at 1:12.
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Ri

@Quenby oh it's at 104% ducks. I guess interest?

both poll answers are at 52% after I voted.
labria

@Quenby not a large sample, but the duck economy looks quite healthy

Quenby (they/them)

Her: and then I asked him "oh I'm sorry am I interrupting your Minecraft?" And you know what he said?

Me: yes?

Her: I don't know where he got this attitude

Me: what attitude? You were interrupting his Minecraft. He was answering what he thought was a question.

Her: well it wasn't a question

Me: well he's a kid and he's new at learning how to read toxic communication styles

Her: 😡 I'm not toxic

Me: what was the point of the question? How did you want him to respond?

Her: not like that

Me: but if you don't know how he's supposed to respond how the hell is he supposed to guess? It sounds like you just want to be mad at him.

Her: I want him to pay attention when I talk to him

Me: then give him enough time to shift his attention before you start talking.

Her: why do I have to change?

Me: because what you're doing now isn't working? Because you're mad every day and you don't have to be? Because your kid needs you to???

Her: and then I asked him "oh I'm sorry am I interrupting your Minecraft?" And you know what he said?

Me: yes?

Her: I don't know where he got this attitude

Me: what attitude? You were interrupting his Minecraft. He was answering what he thought was a question.

Her: well it wasn't a question

Me: well he's a kid and he's new at learning how to read toxic communication styles

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wakame

@Quenby
Sounds like the adult assumes that she is higher up in the hierarchy. Which she isn't.

Jill •-□

@Quenby

I forget which unschooling post I read, but they equated it with someone actively playing a sporting game (soccer, let's say) and a parent demanding the child stop playing the in-progress game to pay attention to the parent. That would be rude to assume, right? So why think that interrupting Minecraft is ok?

Quenby (they/them)

The counter girl hopped right up when I walked in and was clocking in to help me.

Me: were you on break? I can wait until it's over I'm not in a hurry.

Her: no, we're supposed to clock out when there aren't customers

Me: oh no, honey, no. That's illegal.

Her: 😳

Me: not for you, for your manager or whoever told you to do that.

Her: it is?

Me: it's called wage theft when your boss doesn't pay you what you earned. when your boss requires you to stay here, he needs you pay you for your time.

Her: oh.

Me: here, this is the office number to an employment lawyer, call her and tell her you need to come in to talk about this

Her: I don't have any money

Me: we're gonna get your money, you already earned it sweetie.

Edit message to include a link to info about worker's rights:

dol.gov/agencies/whd/workers

The counter girl hopped right up when I walked in and was clocking in to help me.

Me: were you on break? I can wait until it's over I'm not in a hurry.

Her: no, we're supposed to clock out when there aren't customers

Me: oh no, honey, no. That's illegal.

Her: 😳

Me: not for you, for your manager or whoever told you to do that.

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