@Stefan_S_from_H @krusynth This tracks, and there's a strong society-wide conditioning to privilege men's access to consequence-free sexual gratification already at work ("sure the IP log matches, but you're not gonna break up a family, are you?") All this contortion, instead of just making sex not-shameful (because doing so would interfere with the levers available to existing powers. Dismantling any of those has intersectional impact.)