Gregory's ServerI graduated in 1985, and there were 100 people in my class (rural, Northeast). Nobody had come out at that time, but several did later, as well as people I knew in the classes ahead and behind us. I came out as bi in college. One of my college friends realized she was trans back in 1988 and it was so obviously right for her.
It's just a fact of life that there are queer people, but of course people have to turn it into some kind of problem. Exhausting.