@neauoire Agreed in all parts. I've been trying to articulate this to some of my colleagues.
We need to stray much further from encapsulation ("your experience is in your device") to augmentation ("you use your device to augment your experience").
A bicycle is a mode of transport. It does not subsume your experience, it augments it. "Bicycles for the mind", as so many tech circles like to make reference to, need to actually fit that role.
They don't own your eyes. They allow you to cruise.