@mcnulla @mbonsma

That's great...well, much of Europe, Japan, all quality, so you'll have your choice of where to live.

But honestly, I wasn't trying to change your mind, I was expressing exhaustion at your reply because that's exactly how it feels. So tiresome fighting against autonormativity. You didn't seem to want to have your mind changed given that you were basically wagging your finger at the OP.