@exchgr hilarious.
Alan Kay gave it the term.
"I made up the term object-oriented, and I can tell you I did not have C++ in mind."
Though, as far as I've observed Alan Kay is pretty aware of his privilege. I don't know if he's classist? ;)
He is opinionated: https://youtu.be/Lb-cKVxmVGk
I *think* he referred to it as "Object Oriented" because he was inspired by Sketchpad:
So, the way Sketchpad rendered objects are manipulated and there is inheritance to "child" objects when a "master" object (as in "master drawing" and Alan May describes how they are now called "classes" because of Simula) is modified for example.
(Dr. Ivan Sutherland [the creator of Sketchpad] was Alan Kay's doctoral advisor and one of the tasks Alan Kay had to do as a grad student was port Sketchpad to different hardware than what it was originally written to use)
@teajaygrey he also regretted naming it that, wishing he’d focused more on the point, which was the messaging between objects