@mekkaokereke While I wouldn't compare out struggles, as a butch trans woman I feel this.

A trans woman I know was hate-crimed by hotel security in full view of everyone, and nobody did anything. She ended up in the hospital.

I know a butch woman who's been assaulted by straight women for wanting to use the women's bathroom, and security did absolutely nothing about it. In a gay bar.

The moment security gets involved, I'm going into "let it slide" mode. The stakes are too high.