the main thing that I came to the conclusion of is that the properties that I want from an "app" or service like this is not about federation or decentralization or open source, its about it being a commons without profit motive. How do we create infrastructure for apps to exist outside of this capitalist hell scape?
This is the property that is most exciting about the fediverse. It is made up [mostly] of folks trying to create a social good without trying to get anything in return.