@aagot
There's no need to get defensive about this. It is simply a reminder of the correct and polite way to refer to trans women. Transphobes have polluted the language to the point that many people don't even know that transwoman is incorrect. So I offer gentle corrections when I notice someone misusing the word, and especially if they're not a native English speaker, I am not intending as being mean or cruel.

But I still want people to refer to us correctly and to not continue to persist harmful language out of ignorance.