@FediGarden thanks for doing this! The server I moderate, heads.social, and our friends at shakedown.social both meet your criteria and are open to new members with approval. Both are broadly music oriented with a lot of content related to the deadhead/psychedelic counterculture world, but in an easygoing and non restrictive way. We are both strictly moderated in the "no hate/no maga BS/all good people are safe here" sense