@eloquence Erik, as another Wikipedian from way back in the day (I was delighted to see you're still Eloquence here - I was/am Jwrosenzweig at Wikipedia), I couldn't agree more. Just this week I ended up working with two editors I disagreed with, who themselves had just gotten out of an edit war, but the three of us worked from baseline Wikiquette and found common ground together. Felt like the old days - and reminded me of what you say here. Build a community, don't use a product (or be one!).