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Sarah Burstein

@stavvers Yes! And for the love of all that is good and holy, don't starshame people.

Maybe you thought that, on other sites, the only/real purpose of liking or favoriting a post was to increase its visibility.

But showing appreciation/making a human connection matters EVEN IF there's no algorithmic effect.

So encourage people to boost, if you want. But don't tell people not to like/favorite things.

(And, stg, if anyone responds to this by starsplaining, I will block you.)

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Another Angry Woman

@design_law the funny thing about this behaviour is I have never met a single person who ever liked posts for visibility reasons, only to show the poster they liked their posts, it's always been so fucking weird to me seeing the weirdo starshaming posts lol

Oops Upside Keir Hardie

@design_law @stavvers I first started using Mastodon a significant amount around the time of one of the influxes, and it was GREAT when finally the "you must use mastodon exactly like this 1/32" threads died down.

Another Angry Woman

@scatterkeir @design_law I'm actually impressed I haven't seen many this time round, and I wonder if it's because I've muted all those bores, or if they've just been too busy discoursing about kolektiva.social to notice the latest wave of new users

Oops Upside Keir Hardie

@stavvers @design_law it's like "you have to use hashtags", if, for instance I personally ever tweeted about Syd Little, it wasn't with the intention of attracting randos searching for Syd Little, so I have no reason to #SydLittle here.

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@stavvers @scatterkeir @design_law i think it's the former cos i have seen quite a few on the tl and it boils my piss

Just Boby

@almostconverge @stavvers @scatterkeir @design_law Then I must’ve muted those too coz I see more of “BEHAVE PEOPLE OR ELSE!!” Type of warning to those who are here already so we won’t screw up this time.

It’s a bit funny tho :D (I know but still is)

jack will miss this server

@stavvers @scatterkeir @design_law all pedantic newcomer threads should use the #/feditips hashtag and also a cw so they can be filtered out at the instance level

Pete Alex Harris🦡🕸️🌲/∞🪐∫

@stavvers @design_law
I like that there's a meaningful difference between starring something and boosting it, and that it's a choice a human can make freely and purposefully, not just grist for an algorithm they have no control over.

Cat

@stavvers @design_law Exactly that. I'd go so far as to say the fact that how Twitter worked was misaligned with how people used Twitter is hardly Fedi's problem.

Another Angry Woman

@Catriona @design_law the thing is, it wasn't even how twitter was designed to work - first they were a simple bookmarking tool, then it because a way of showing someone you liked their post, and then it got algorithmic but like I said I doubt many people ever used it like that

Christopher Phin

@stavvers @design_law The thing that’s been so disorientatingly weird for me on Masto is that the mechanical experience so completely mimics the experience I had with Twitter, since I accessed it via Tweetbot. I had a chronological feed of the people I followed, and the algo did fuck all*. It’s weird only because so many people are baffled by it, and I’m, like, _your_ Twitter sounds atrocious!

*caveat: with the exception of sometimes surfacing me to non-followers, for good or ill

Sarah Burstein

@chrisphin @stavvers Yeah, I was a TweetDeck user, so my experience has been similar

martynpie

@chrisphin @stavvers @design_law I had not considered this, but it’s 10/10 true for me too.

davrod

@stavvers @design_law I'm new but this is the first I've heard of it. Progress, maybe?? 🤷‍♂️

So Julia

@stavvers @design_law Yeah, I’ve never used the Twitter app (nor understood why anyone would!) so I’ve never experienced the algorithm.

Tricia

@design_law @stavvers I star many more posts than I boost because I may like it for a number of reasons, or just agree with the poster on something, but don’t feel compelled to share it with the entire community.
I appreciate the art/artist, but don’t want it tattooed on my arm forever basically.

Mathaetaes

@design_law @stavvers okay… I’ve seen starshaming, but would you please explain starsplaining?

Sarah Burstein

@mathaetaes @stavvers I just made it up in my frustration with people who like to tell me "AKSHULLY, likes/favorites affect What's Hot" or similar missing-the-point kind of nonsense

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