@neauoire @csepp @spiralganglion @eli_oat A couple of years ago I did a phone call with my parents. My mom picked up and we chatted a bit. Where's Dad? Oh he's right here he's just dozing next to me. Tilt the phone, quick shot of him dozing.

The next day he went in for another trip to the ICU. He never came out. A week later he was dead.

So that phone call was my last chance to talk to him, and I had no idea.