@deadsuperhero @gruber Folks on here do have a choice of community to move to. Yes moving is hard and it sucks when defederation happens.
But it is possible to move instances now, and that will improve. As a user I moved a sub account of mine to another instance, purely because of their admins attitude.
What we in the community have a duty to do is on-board, like we did years ago with Gmail invités, Like we did when telling our friends about the networks we were on.
@deadsuperhero @gruber but as an individual I certainly don't have to engage in anyway with instances that choose to federate with instances with under investment in community safety.
I deleted my account last year from Facebook. I have no wish to engage at all with anything they have created. That's my choice, just like it's anyone's choice on here.