@brembs In fact, I do not assume that this is fine with you, I rather assumed you just chose an unfortunate wording which hurts people you would like to work together with. I posted this to make you aware to best change it or at least not use this wording in the future.

I was made aware of this by a librarian colleague who got really angry about it and I could understand them not least because it wasn't a new experience that scholars referred to librarians not in a collegial way.