Gregory's Server@tty I I have a tendency to be very wary of others, defensive too, but it hasn't served me well. I'm not saying I trust them, but if people approach me to talk to me, or if they talk about things I don't agree with I try and not judge them too quickly.
Evidently, this is from the perspective of meeting people on the dock, where I at least have 'boating' in common with them. It's very different than encountering complete randos, as you said.
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@tty When the guy asked me what was in the pressure sprayer I had a moment when i couldnt believe he was asking me that, i was thinking 'hey c'mon im not THAT stupid/irresponsible'. I thought that only because ppl judge me sometimes, because of how i dress (old black clothes), or my perceived gender(im doing something badly/wrong), and make assumptions about me & im super sensitive to that.
But in that case i was wrong, he was worried about me because of his experience, not judging me.