All above is written while I understand why people tend to block Freespeech and other instances filled with jerks of a people, since I really feel sometimes that being able to read posts from such instances hurts my nerves (they may not attack me, but I feel attacked because they talk shitty about kinds of people that I actually have a lot of fedifriends in) and I still end up muting almost all of people that I see from “usually blocked” instances
The reason why I stay on udongein despite that is that I love local community and don’t want to leave instance that made me stay on fediverse.