Brilliant post by @mykie yesterday: "The Meaning Behind My Songs".
I was the one who said the quoted "if I learn a song has no meaning behind it, I can no longer listen".
To be honest, it doesnt' fully represent my involvement with music, otherwise I wouldn't love instrumental pieces :)
I also love abstract lyrics and unclear messages, provided that they "speak" to me. My negative example was David Gilmour: adding random words "just because" doesn't mean squat.
@mykie also, I'm neurodivergent, and I need to be touched by a song, with or without lyrics.
But in particular, if there are lyrics, then I tend to get whether the artist has added them for a reason or just as another musical component. Sometimes I do enjoy the rhythm, the sound of the words even without following a meaning β most times, if they don't give me emotion, I leave.
The fact that I need a message might be idiosyncratic, but I don't expect it to be a universal rule.