I've heard all those excuses, some of them are real, none of my family or friends know anything about the Fediverse, (apart from me telling them how good it is), most are simply just lazy and won't change. This is the reality for them, they just don't care, they don't care if they support fascism, they don't care how much power they give to big social, or how much privacy they don't have.
THEY JUST DON'T CARE, (caps for emphasis).