@charliejane
That is always a good idea
(Although i reserve the right to think someone is an idiot, no matter how many disadvantaged groups they belong to)

I feel that to many priviliged people (and i'm no exception, still trying to unlearn this) have a tendency to latch onto that one movie or interview where a minority person says something we like, something that makes us feel good about ourselves.
And that makes us feel confident in telling ourselves and everyone else 'see, that is how everyone of that minority *should* think, if they all just learned from their compatriot there would not be a problem anymore'