Gregory's Servertrans people have to confront this reality of themselves in order to accept they're trans. Like there has to be a moment at some point where you go
"fuck, ive been lying to myself and i wasn't even a good liar"
and idk, i think more people need that confrontation.
people buying social media sites for excessive amounts of money, or sinking fortunes into virtual reality because they are absolutely convinced they are Very Smart™ and Very Right™
and its like no you're not, you're so weak and flimsy because you think those two things are true.