@hkz This really looks like your cat is trying REALLY HARD to make friends with your wife!
So sweet!
Does your wife have any openness to the notion of taking "cat training"? I mean, for the purposes of interacting with your cat, not trying to train the cat...
@OldBrushNewPaper oh she's had cat since forever, some more rascally than others. In the end she just vents with me and gets on with it...