@fedora
#Element, however I seriously wish it's #UI didn't treat 1 on 1 chats as a "room" (eg. configuration messages about "X joined the room", "Y configured the room", "Z left the room" etc). All the unnecessary extra messages made new people I introduced confused and uncomfortable.
It seems like #Schildichat might be more friendly, however I'm not sure if they have #android and #iOS apps and the bus factor seems kind of low.
Should probably go to #FluffyChat.