It Doesn't Have To Be Like This but it is like this. Fedi very much comes from the Open Web way of thinking about things, where privacy is considered a misfeature.
There are also a lot of archivists on Fedi, and (I mean no offense by this, but this is something I have found) many archivists are notorious about not respecting personal boundaries when it comes to information. What matters to them more is preservation.
Gregory's Server
There are also a lot of archivists on Fedi, and (I mean no offense by this, but this is something I have found) many archivists are notorious about not respecting personal boundaries when it comes to information. What matters to them more is preservation.