One of my biggest frustrations with Mastodon is that too many people -- often who aren't developers -- try to control what I can and cannot do.
Quite often these people aren't aware that there's a bigger Fediverse world outside of Mastodon.
These gatekeepers can't control what features are available outside Mastodon.
Not that they can control features inside Mastodon either -- but they seem to be under that illusion anyway.
It's important to normalize the following words:
"Hey, Mastodon doesn't have that feature? That's okay! Here's an alternative to Mastodon that has it -- and you can use that alternative to talk to Mastodon!"