@jesse we are fine with self promotion here on friend camp. There are a lot of indie artists here who promote their wares to live. Our tolerance is actually very high.
"Annoying" is whatever the 60 of us agree is annoying. That's what's nice about a small server: I can get reasonable consensus on a case by case basis without having to codify everything.
@darius Human judgement is a wonderful thing. I'm just trying to understand the controversy of the day and totally failing to figure out what people are angry about.