@jepyang i *love* it when a cis person puts in a they because "it's just a pronoun people use naturally and i'm okay with it"
@lennby yeah for real βΊοΈ itβs so good
most cis people probably catch a they/them occasionally and never even notice
@jepyang @lennby I never put it because I get no euphoria from being a they so I figured it was overreach
But y'all saying it's actively helpful even if I'm just indifferent convinced me to do it
@funkula @lennby π i really genuinely appreciate it, thank you :)
@funkula @lennby and in my experience, now people will actively avoid using they/them for you π
@lennby yeah for real βΊοΈ itβs so good
most cis people probably catch a they/them occasionally and never even notice