@ElleGray this is really nice how all the people got that feeling of the world being a good place by reading this. It's just unfortunate that it also highlights either a unicorn rare event that usually won't manifest in your life (or was even simply made up, that little humble brag element is suspicious).

The truth is (and people who have clubs know this) that you really have to put a lot of effort into creating such a thing, which includes sitting there alone, maybe even a lot.