@Daojoan many years ago my wife was a helluva Counterstrike player. She was even part of a team that had a pro division. Though she never was quite good enough to qualify for the pros, she “pwned n00bs” regularly. This was always the case for her. The skilled players (including the pros) were always respectful to her. The scrubs would be very likely to use misogynistic and transphobic slurs against her.